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Set a boundary for home access

Clarify who may use a key or entry code and under what circumstances.

Try this

  1. Name who has access and the circumstances in which using it is welcome.
  2. Discuss practical changes through the proper account or lock controls if needed. Do not assume that an old key arrangement still matches current living circumstances.

A worked example

“Please contact me before using the spare key for a nonurgent visit.”

An invented example to adapt, not a real exchange or a script you have to follow.

Before you leave it here

Review the arrangement when circumstances change rather than relying on an old assumption.

This is a voluntary planning exercise. Keep your notes private, adapt the language, and leave any question unanswered. It does not require Ourling or a purchase.

Ourling’s library uses AI-assisted original writing. These are practical exercises, not clinical advice or promises about relationship outcomes. Suggest a correction or a missing situation.