Make a guest-room boundary explicit

Agree which spaces remain private when someone stays overnight.

Try this

  1. Identify the private rooms and belongings before guests arrive, and agree on who will explain the arrangement.
  2. Provide a usable alternative for shared needs, such as where guests may leave bags, without opening the private room by default.

A worked example

“The study will stay closed while we have guests.”

An invented example to adapt, not a real exchange or a script you have to follow.

Before you leave it here

Tell visitors the arrangement clearly instead of expecting them to infer it.

This is a voluntary planning exercise. Keep your notes private, adapt the language, and leave any question unanswered. It does not require Ourling or a purchase.

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